Captain/Jarvis
Sounds like the HYDRA I remember. They always start in the shadows and then show up with a bang. The fact that you and a lot of others were able to do that just shows that those that sacrificed didn't do it for nothing.
It's more common than you'd think. It took me a while to get used to it but people are a lot more open. Not that you're under any obligation to share in the same way. I don't, usually, but sometimes I get dragged into it. For some reason when people get on the internet they feel more confident about saying things. I guess because it's not in person? For Bucky I think it's probably just easier. He spent a long time closed off, alone, keeping secrets. Having things out in the open is probably a relief. Take all the time you need to adjust. In the meantime these filters come in pretty handy.