Getting atachedatashed fond of a home ends up pointless it seems. They are fleeting.
Your father was a Magister, but you are not? Too many suns? They are steeped in blood magic. It is what they are. If you truly despise it, then I am sorry your father disapointed you.
Hawke's friends do not fare her well in the Fade. Dragons are not beyond what Hawke can handle. Most people want to be close to her.