Emotions have more variables than the physical and it's harder to judge what's going on with them. Besides, when you get burned enough times in life by things both in control and out of, you build up a nice set of defenses to fall back into at a moment's notice. That becomes one of the few things a Lane can get gunshy about. The Lane family just isn't the best at dealing with that kind of thing.
Yes, we are. Or I will. You will. Someone will at least. Or maybe they won't.. I think I'm going to shut up now.