Right. If you didn't have the question mark in there, I probably would have accepted that. I wanted to know so I can think of places to suggest. I seriously doubt any of the activities I've picked up here would be up your ally. Anyway, you've got the movie theater, the coffee shop, youth center, the local stables.. There's a shooting range that I like, and oh, the Tutamen training center. Honestly though, I think your best bet for anything would be P3 if you're looking for more of a crowd to join. I suddenly feel extraordinarily old right now.
But before you completely ignore my hopefully helpful suggestions and go searching for the dive bars that I know I would have gone looking for, you might want to keep in mind that I'm pretty sure you have an SO around here. Even if you don't know them yet, they could probably still make your life pretty difficult here if they wanted to.