It would be difficult and that's what Roran would be most sympathetic towards. After everyone goes back to Amaranthine once these missions are done these two could meet? Roran would be like "z'omg I know your parents" and probably be reallyreally interested in hearing his side of the "mage life story". She's starting to question her stance on the whole mage thing currently (she's enjoying her magic company right now entirely too much for her Andrastian-self).