Never fear, Ordhan would only waffle and hesitate for an hour or two before working up the courage to go talk to him. If he gets it in his mind he ought to talk to someone, he will, but Social Awkwardness Alert!
Yeah, chivalry has pretty much nothing to do with how Ordhan sees himself as a knight. For one, he thinks that he should have never been knighted, and for another, he's just been throwing himself at every battle possible in effort to make up for the years in the guard where he shunned his duty. So, pretty much all comes down to duty, and he's shackled himself to it. /ramble ramble They might have some thoughts in common about it, some differences--a great idea for a conversation!