1) Most definitely, at least to see the place again, see what had become of her parents' remains. She would even stay if there was nothing for her outside of the village.
2) Hmm... I would say since she's partial to big heavy weapons perhaps a two-handed axe.
3) I guess her habit of taking men to bed too easily, though it is likely this is changing.
4) Yes, most definitely. She's no white knight in terms of morals, but even she has her limits.
5) Something more reliable, I guess as she would like to have a family and that makes this more feasible.