Re: Walking Order
I tried to imagine how the leadership discussion would go, based on what i know about the chars. I figure Conlan will try and pass off leadership to Ser Ordhan, most experienced, and got the title. I would guess Ordhan (and possibly a few others would point out "Grey Warden Mission=Grey Warden should be in charge." Assuming that the group wants a Warden leading, then yeah I expect either Faer or Conlan to get put in charge, and in either case, if Con is in charge, he'll have Faer do most of the talking, and if Faer is in charge, Con will probably take over if things get hairy.
Though I assume leadership is likely going to mostly be keeping the group organized and such. I can't imagine that anyone in a leadership position wouldn't let everyone else in the group speak their mind.
AND! I do think leadership, and strategy would come into play with both walking order, and camp set up. But I do like the idea of coming up with walking order, and totally agree with you on the points you made there.