"My family moved from Chicago when I was four, settled in SLC. Took a lot of years to get out, but I finally made it out and got up here. I'd like to do more traveling, but that's hard to do for me." He took a drag on the cigarette. "Julie's your fiancee? How long've you been engaged?"
Why are you engaged wasn't actually an appropriate question, even if Matt suspected it was a good one.