"Well," Lorne said curtly, "those are the answers I got, unless you sing."
He widened his eyes, then, as if emphasizing the point. "Nobody can tell you where to find a girl or find friends or any of that if they don't know a decent bit about you first. And expecting anyone to do all of that is a little bit nuts to begin with. Those things? They tend to just happen when you're not looking for 'em. So my advice? Stop looking."
It's a good place...
Lorne smiled. "I think so." He waited a beat. "So did you wanna sing? Or did you wanna try to find the answers for yourself?" He winked.