I really think you do. And if she doesn't mind you can always join us when we do pool and milkshakes. I think she'd like spending time with two of her favorite guys at once.
I watched my movies again recently and I saw just what a cock bastard I was. I think even when I thought I'd grown up I really hadn't. It took being here and making some huge mistakes and dealing with the backlash to start the personal growth process. And I'm fairly sure it took almost dying in Russia to speed it up. So it's nice that others see the growth, too.