Jack was more stubborn than most people actually, but he did it with such impressive style that really no one should notice the stubborn hidden behind it. But Becker wasn't gonna argue about it it seemed and so Jack simply kept the man steady, actually moving round toward the couch itself. Sitting down could be a plan. Might actually relax Becker some. It would do him good.
"I know I'm more than that. Its just such a big part of the whole that sometimes people ignore the rest of it. But not you, never you." And it was true. He saw something in Jack that so often went ignored. And what Jack saw in him was a soldier that cared so much and so deeply about those around him. And somehow Jack had gotten lucky enough to be considered in that group of people.
And he thought he was sexy and heroic. It was true as it happened. They both were, they made a ridiculously attractive couple, even if he did say so himelf. "Heroics are sexy. But only when you have a fancy coat and very very manly gun to go with the heroics. Otherwise what's the point"