Becker listened to Jack speak, one eyebrow raised slightly and a bemused look on his face, before he shook his head with fond exasperation. A gentle shove later and he was leaning over Jack slightly, propped up on one arm as he looked down. "Jack, I say this with the utmost affection, and yes love too, but you're an idiot sometimes." There was amusement in his eyes, but he was serious too. "Whatever you used to do or be, doesn't matter to me. I look at the man I'm with now and that man is pretty damn incredible. Incredible enough to break me out of my 'holy crap, relationships always go wrong' mindset, and that's damn impressive."
Sometimes he wondered about Jack's past. Not in a judgmental way, he was pretty sure that nothing Jack could tell him would make Becker walk away from him, but he did want to know how to free him from the ghosts of his history. To make him see that he wasn't defined by it. He supposed he could do the easy part and just go and look at the TV show, but it just felt distasteful to him to do that. A massive invasion of privacy, and Jack deserved better than that. So Becker very pointedly didn't watch any Doctor Who, or Torchwood. Or any other spin offs that possibly existed.
Though he did blink. "Murder rehab is actually a thing? I thought having an ex who burned my clothes when I broke up with her was intense." He'd heard of anger management classes, but even so.
"Okay, the sex is a pretty big part," he had to laugh, it was just the reaction to that grin of Jack's, the one that made him think all the problems of the world could just be handled easily. "I can honestly say, best I've ever had. I didn't think it was even possible for men to have multiple orgasms until you." He did wonder sometimes if he was boring in comparison to Jack's varied history, but then again if he was too boring, would Jack have really stayed with him for all these months?
"I'm lucky you found me too," he agreed, returning the kiss for emphasis. "And not just because I was in a cursed hallucination at the time. Though really, that was so very lucky. But I definitely approve of you coming out for a drink with me after."