A few years ago she had fully intended on hitting on him as much as possible. She was much older now, things were different. Also, her currently...whatever Dean was, made her happy. Ben had been so good to them, good to Dawn, had ran out to help Giles while they were in the middle of nowhere trapped by an army of weirdos.
"I think most people are still confused. We don't really have a solid answer for that. Other than something called a seal created a portal. It has to be powerful." she wish she knew how it worked exactly, but she'd been here for a while now and had never found a way back. In fact, she was thinking that the people who did go back were just at random.
Buffy frowned slightly, she really hated that people who had built their career couldn't seem to use it here. "If you want, I know there are people who are capable making IDs for this world. You could get back into the hospital if you want? Work your way up?" it wouldn't be a top level job, but get him in as a nurse? Yeah, should be possible.
As for her friends, well, it hadn't always been that easy. "They're here now, but they weren't at first. It was just me at first...and Spike. But everyone else showed up later." much later, after she had already got use to this place. Though her friends? Made it much easier.