I have a feeling you would draw attention even if you weren't magical, Dora. You have a powerful personality that I don't think is only tied to your magical prowess. Is there anything in the Muggle world that you enjoy doing, though?
Have your children already shown signs of magic? They're so young! I don't know the average age for that sort of thing, but most of my nieces and nephews have shown signs between 4 and 7, I think.
I didn't spend much time in other house common rooms. Gryffindor was never my favorite to visit, though. It was always far too loud.
Well, it is incredibly rude to tough a pregnant woman's bump without permission, so I don't think that makes you not the best pregnant woman. But then, I didn't know you when your pregnant, so it is perhaps a faulty opinion. Or at least a not fully informed one. Either way, I don't think you're as awful as you claim to be, and this opinion comes after spending an evening in person with you. I'd even go so far as to say I'd enjoy spending more time in person with you.