Somehow I doubt that's the sort of spontaneity you want in your life. What about some sort of impulsive day trip with your girlfriends? My sisters do that sort of thing from time to time.
What were some of your favorite cities you visited and explored through dueling?
Stair step children, hmm? I'm pretty sure I was the unplanned child out of the lot, though of course my parents never made me feel like it was a bad thing. My mum enjoyed a break between pregnancies, I think. She's made some comments through my sisters' pregnancies, anyway.