Private to Blaise
I'm so sorry Sorry that you had to face that kind of abandonment, that I haven't been around enough to even know. I know that you've been under pressure at work and then dealing with me on top of that.
I'm sorry you've been hurt. I know what it took for you to let someone in and what it means that he just left.
Kermit is the kind of person who lives his life as an extrovert. He never learned that being open with everything makes it easier to hurt you, but it means he can't see what he's not told. He hasn't known you long enough to see the ways you show love - I've always felt it from you. I know he was close to you.
He shouldn't have done that and I'm sorry that he did. I'm sorry I wasn't able to stop him and that I couldn't talk to him before he went. I don't think he knew how much it would hurt you to just up and disappear.
There's no one better than you, I know that from the way you've been looking after me even since Hogwarts. I'm here for you anyway, regardless of what's happening; please know that. And I know that it's difficult to be able to trust someone who deserted you before, and I'm not saying you have to forgive him or even take him back - but I don't think he meant what he did to hurt you. I think that's the last thing he wanted and honestly, if I could, I'd only let you come into contact with people who felt that way.
Maybe, when you're ready, talk to him? Even just in writing?
I won't ask her to do anything that isn't your decision. I won't deny that you both have the right to be angry. I'm sorry this happened. I just want you to be happy.
I love you. I wouldn't be here without you. And you know where I am if you want to talk or cat or anything else.