You know how much about the Force I know, since the brain twins thing, but maybe even if the Force is the only thing here with answers, it, I don't know, wants you to find the answer? Like a teacher who won't tell you what you got wrong on a test or something. Or is that disrespectful to talk about the Force like it's a pain in the neck teacher or parent?
How do I do this, losing people and stuff over and over, is that what you mean?