Exactly. My elder sister is no warrior; she has three children and she manages her household and keeps the accounts for her husband's smithy. It's good that she does, because the world needs people raising children and making food and keeping books as much as it needs knights with swords - maybe more so. But to suggest that she is required to do that because she happens to be a woman sounds mad to me. (And she has never in her life had the patience for fine stitching.)