Now that's the charming answer I'm familiar with, so it's fair to say there are universal constants when it comes to all of us and the people that share names and stories with us.
If there's anything you need, let me know. I do mean that, it's not just a polite thing to say. Torunn, James, and I are all from the same timeline and a couple of the same relocations, so we have some experience with all of this.