tim/pike.
Yeah. Know that feeling all too well. It happens to the best of us, trust me. It's generally better to just write those ones off, stick to being friends, and the feelings go away. Or at least, they mellow themselves back out. It's just as easy to love them as a friend.
And that. That's more complicated. Because you've either got a douchebag on your hands or someone composed entirely of intense insecurities and desperately trying to cover them up.