It's totally chaotic, yeah. But you kind of get used to the chaos, and then you're screaming at a ref for a terrible call and whacking flying hockey pucks out of the way with your clipboard.
Ugh, toxic masculinity is the WORST, bro. So we gotta support badass ladies, and bros who embrace sensitivity, and our gender nonconforming friends and bro I did a whole series of art pieces on this, you get me started and I will NOT stop.