steddie.
Well, you are. You don't have to feel it all the time, but I'm here to remind you.
We're all hurting, but that doesn't mean you can't feel the way you feel. This is big and sudden and it hurts. Everyone is going to feel that differently and deal with it differently, and that doesn't invalidate how you feel. So don't feel like you have some kind of responsibility to us to be okay. You don't. We love you and we're here for you, even when you're not.