Archerons & Cassian
Oh no, Nesta, don't!! ...Well. Perhaps if they're especially good.
That's important. There have been lots of people who've done that, I think--no, I know. No one does it here, to me, thankfully, but in looking back? Many people did. So if you can find someone who treats you with respect, then the rest can fall into place, because you have that as the base. Truly?? Have you seen it?