Oh girl, I so know that feeling. I'll show you where the secret bathroom and the smoking area are - they're both good spots to sneak out and get yourself together if you've had a little too much people. (Smoking area still has people, but it's a big space and not as many people, and the smokers all seem to have agreed that if someone doesn't give more than a nod when you make eye contact with them, you should leave them alone to stand in their corner.)