I have complicated feelings about it. On the one hand, I've seen threads of fate and how they connect people and places and their experiences. On the other, I've felt my own fate changed many, many times at my own accord; my goddess calls that fate-touched.
And on the other other hand, as apparently I have three in this analogy, weren't all of our fates diverted within Vallo? I am no longer wandering the material plane back home--well, for the most part, as I've recently been told that exceptions have been made to great consequence. But now I'm here, wandering and living a life where I've forged myself a very different path, alongside many people I never would have known back home. It's hard to deny some control.