thor odinson isn't wearing his mother's drapes (thundering) wrote in valloic,
I'm sure there will be plenty of others to chime in to tell you that you're not alone in these thoughts.
I know it's a hard thing to come to terms with. When my brother was taken back from here, I didn't take it well. But you eventually comes to term with it. Especially give that there is no higher duty other than to be a good person here and help where you can. Leaves a lot of room for choice.