I want to shit on that but I fucking hated home and still find home-y adjacent things comforting so.... yeah okay I get that.
No, kids are raised by Nursery, group of women, attachments aren't encouraged because they lead to too much entitlement, that kind of deal. If they see you get too cozy with someone that's ended. It's bullshit but some of what you're saying is the opposite end of the spectrum so it's kind of hard to wrap my head around.