I know that feeling. Vallo's open door can be a blessing and a curse.
It isn't prying. Shelley Yates - works in HR, I believe? You'd think someone who worked there would be more sensitive to others' desires, but no. I briefly thought about leaving her in the lighthouse for a few years to mellow her out but unfortunately it vanished when I did (that was a joke).
The point is - I could get rid of her, kindly or cruelly, but eventually she'll find a new target for her affections. I'd rather spend time bouncing ideas off of you.