That's actually a really good question and in hindsight not the thing for me to say in that moment.
Well your father doesn't sound like a nice person should realize that plans don't always go the way you expect them too because of all the external factors. It would be nice if plans went the way they're supposed to though, I get it. You're okay though. That's the big thing.
I'm Joel. Would you mind if I came and found you? I won't do anything you don't want me to, I just want you to feel safe.