I wouldn't put myself in either of those categories because of the way I think of them? It's different for everyone but while I was restricted for a while as I had to hide my academic pursuits to keep up the family business, I finally got out. I was able to travel the world and see amazing things and didn't have to hide who I was. Then I ended up here and I was still able to be myself, just the world changed. When someone gets to live again or change the restrictive circumstances they were in back there, that's who I consider to be getting a second chance.