Ah, right, I remember you mentioning it happened to you too. Still hard to believe it's been a thing that happened multiple times to people here, but I don't blame you for never wanting to do it again. I'm sure even just once makes you feel like you've missed a lot.
That was my rationale - I mean, why I'd want to learn. Here or there. She's by herself, separated from her moms. I know she'll find them again someday but until then I'd do whatever I could to help her feel less alone.