One of my aunts married into the community and been known to make certain comments along those lines. Not sure I really get what the fuss is about but it's normal to me?
Fortunately my family was on the winning side of the war and there's a lot of us, so nobody much cared if I wanted to go off and play pro sports for a decade or so.
Very true. It would mean I'd have to go through this all over again and I wouldn't look forward to that.