Socialization can be exhausting. People can be exhausting. I won't hold it against you. I don't exactly always know how to socialize either. Sometimes I think If you don't hold it against me either?
Smaller might be better? What if you guys find out you don't want For everyone. So we're not trying to force a square peg in a round hole so to speak. And it'd be a good way to break the ice. Very low pressure.