verin thelyss ⚔️ critical role (c2) (taskhand) wrote in valloic,
I'm going to answer this from the perspective of someone on the other side of a less specific but similar in some ways in impact situation.
It's hard to make up for it, and words only mean so much. For me, I had to see the change in action. Like the desire to make better or at least more conscious choices? They're the same person they've always been, but I can see how things would be different given new chances?
I don't know how much that helps, but it is possible to make amends even though we're here and the past can't be changed. The fact that you're asking means a lot in my opinion.