serefin "tranavia's greatest idiot" meleski (meleski) wrote in valloic,
I am not one to usually give advice, as most of my experiences should not be replicated and I am more of a cautionary tale, but I have always found that reminding myself I am the person they choose to come back to at the end of the day helps with the other unseemly feelings.
Ah, he would never turn down a fight. Principles or what have you. You might be on to something with sparring and food.