Not really any say, no. Or, well, sort of - I made a dumb decision.
I was separated from my family and I thought magic was the way to bring us back together - my father was a powerful magic user but he was dead so I used dark magic to resurrect him, basically. The exchange was a life for a life only that little tidbit was 'accidentally' overlooked and not mentioned when I was researching how to do it. He was so powerful that other people wanted him back too, and just wanted me to throw my life away for it. He came back but he didn't want me to die in his place so he sort of...absorbed my consciousness into him? We were sharing a body and a mind for awhile, it was weird. But that couldn't continue because it was driving him insane so I told Henry's mom (also a magic user) to separate us, and I died then.