Obi-Wan is aging surprisingly well (obi1) wrote in valarlogs,
Obi-Wan knew Loras was trying to comfort him, but also knew Loras was stubborn and quick to pronounce judgement. Aside from Margaery, it seemed like every woman fell short of the mark. And he was protective of Obi-Wan like a dog over her pups.
He felt a pang like a knife at the admittedly mild attack on Faiza. His heart throbbed, because he disagreed with Loras and wanted to defend her. He knew Faiza was jealous of his bond with Kitty. She wanted that bond to be with her.
All these thoughts passed over Obi-Wan's face like a dark cloud. "She's scared and I can't blame her. Kitty doesn't respect boundaries. I probably shouldn't be as close with her as I am. But it's my fault. I could have done a better job of reassuring her."