"It's not defeatism, it's only realism," Loras replied. He didn't point out that Obi-Wan was still sitting here, having eggs with him instead of going and trying, at least trying. The women in Obi-Wan's life just seemed to never try with him, though.
After swallowing the last bit of his eggs, Loras moved the plate aside and leaned forward with his forearms on the table. "If she's questioning your loyalty and she doesn't trust you, then she doesn't deserve you," he said. Obi-Wan could never be accused of not being loyal.