Pansy thought that Sherlock should get himself a girlfriend. Or a boyfriend. Or whatever it was that he wanted. She thought he was a bit pent up. A release might help him with that problem. But she wouldn't say it to him. Not at all. Maybe to Peter, but never to Sherlock himself. He intimidated her too much.
"You're bored, but you're worried about becoming boring to others?" She asked for clarification.