Yes, you are! The thing you're trying to protect them from is being around you, you idiot. They're adults and they don't need to be shielded from the world anymore. I love them and I am their father, but you're their uncle. You're a big part of their lives. Trying to shield them from the fallout of just knowing you is like saying you'd rather you not be in their lives.
I appreciate that. And now I kinda wish I could veto it, but now I'd look like an ass after raking you over the coals. Let me know what happens. I hope she says no.