I'm not belittling them! I know they're adults, but wouldn't you still do anything in your power to protect them from something that could damage them? Of course you would because you love them! I'm not their father, but don't I get that too? Can't I want to protect them too?
I haven't asked her yet. If she says no, then I'll let it drop. If she says yes, then I'll take her. But I wanted to give the heads up to you first, you know, being her dad and all.