Anyone who thinks they have all the answers at any age is fooling themselves. You might have some of the answers, you may even have most of the answers, but life is ever changing, Jaune. What you know today may completely change tomorrow. Those who seem as though they have all the answers are simply better at adapting to those changes than others.
Ok, so they expected you to be here. Let's take them out of the equation for the moment. What do you want?