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Tweak says, "I'm not your girlfriend."

defies_gravity (defies_gravity) wrote in valarcomm,
@ 2015-09-08 00:56:00

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elphaba thropp, luthien tinuviel

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>> It's just occurred to me, we never talked about...donors

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	tinuviel 2015-09-08 12:08 am UTC (link)
	>> That would be important, yes. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	defies_gravity 2015-09-18 11:41 pm UTC (link)
	>> Have you thought about it? >> How do you feel about anonymous donors? >> Or do you know someone you'd like to be a donor >> This is such a weird conversation... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tinuviel 2015-09-19 02:08 am UTC (link)
	>> I'd honestly be a little worried if it was someone we knew. I wouldn't want to put pressure on them. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

defies_gravity
2015-09-19 07:41 pm UTC (link)

>> I hadn't thought about that
>> I wouldn't want anyone to feel any pressure from our decision to do this
>> So anonymous donors then
>> I've been doing a bit of research and you can have two types of donors
>> Ones who can't be traced back no matter what
>> Or ones who can be identified when the child turns 18 and it can be proved that they were the result of the treatment
>> I like the idea of the child being able to find out when they're 18, what about you?

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	tinuviel 2015-09-19 09:29 pm UTC (link)
	>> I do too. >> It would be up to them to decide if they wanted to track him down >> And he would have obviously consented to this possibility. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	defies_gravity 2015-09-19 10:48 pm UTC (link)
	>> Obviously >> I've only done a quick search on Google, but it seems like there are quite a few facilities in Orange County >> I don't know how we're going to choose >> Where to start >> Any thoughts? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tinuviel 2015-09-19 10:54 pm UTC (link)
	>> We should make a list >> Check out reviews and maybe speak to other women who have gone through with this >> Find the place that we feel comfortable with. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	defies_gravity 2015-09-19 11:13 pm UTC (link)
	>> I like that idea >> The spreadsheets, that is >> I'm not so good at the talking to people >> Who would we ask? Do you know anyone who's done this sort of thing before? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tinuviel 2015-09-19 11:31 pm UTC (link)
	>> I will look around for forums or websites >> I'm sure there are people discussing this! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	defies_gravity 2015-09-19 11:32 pm UTC (link)
	>> Thank you >> Do you think it's worth putting something on the ValarNet? See if anyone there has any advice? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tinuviel 2015-09-19 11:48 pm UTC (link)
	>> Shall you or I do it? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	defies_gravity 2015-09-20 11:32 pm UTC (link)
	>> I can do it. >> I need to get more comfortable talking about it after all >> Otherwise it's probably not for me (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tinuviel 2015-09-20 11:49 pm UTC (link)
	>> I do hope we get a girl. (Reply to this) (Parent)