I don't know why you would want to do either, but really don't know why you would want to hit me. Is that your way of flirting? You are a confusing and complex person.
I don't agree that they think it's fine for a man to fight, but deny the same right to women who are capable of doing the same. A woman has hands and resolve to kill or injure for any number of reasons, just as a man does.
I, myself, don't relish the thought of killing anyone else. However, I agree that it is a necessary evil and needed to keep safe the innocent and those too weak to defend themselves.