She was confused by that, frowned, mouthing the words back to repeat them and then realization dawned on her face. "Oh gosh, no, no, Bobby never asked, Bobby didn't wanna marry me. No, I was married. .before. That was when Bobby an' I met." She rubbed at the back of her neck with a nervous laugh. "I um, well Kurt was an asshole, he used t'knock the shit outta me when I was. . when Drew won't born yet. Divorced hm."