J sighed, giving her shoulders a comforting little squeeze. "You loved him. You miss him. There's nothin' wrong with that. An' I know it hurts, but... you wouldn't be you if it weren't for him, right? Forgettin' altogether'd take away a part of you. An' I like you as is.
"Movin' on might come along, eventually. But rememberin' him just means you value what he did for you."