"I'm not telling you to do that. I'm just saying you've got to tell her 'look, I'm not going anywhere. I'll be here when you're ready' and then just live your life. Just because you're waiting doesn't mean time has to stand still. Besides that way it tells her to hurry up and get over her issues before it's really too late without actually saying it." Well of course she was right about relationship things. She usually was. She glanced over at him and rolled her eyes, "You don't spoon with me in the middle of the night. I knew perfectly well when I started this that you weren't going to moon over me like you do for her. So we can skip my feelings."