"Anyone who wants to be with someone is supposed to be the one to 'talk'. You can't have a good relationship if you don't talk about it once in awhile. You have to decide if Jin's worth it to you to make some adjustments. To yourself, circumstances, whatever. If you try and nothing changes, and you don't want to change yourself, or you do and you're still not happy, then you leave. And see if that works. And see if you're happy, or at least happier than you were before."