True he had told her that he wasn't going to mess around and ditch her but apparently he never thought of her ditching him for some guy. Really, it would serve him right. But since he hadn't taken her bathroom break to go and hit on whoever, she felt like maybe she shouldn't. It was only a dance though, so told the guy to wait a moment and then wandered back over to Kirk, "That guy wants me to dance with him.." well it was sort of like asking for permission but not really.